Abstract: We work with children in the name of God. Like Mary and Joseph were marginalized as a result of that Christmas night, people marginalize those who follow Jesus Christ's holy example. Experience that day of angels. Know Christ.


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Silent night...Aurelia and I are celebrating our first Christmas as husband and wife.
Holy night... It is the time of the year when I take time to consider Joseph and Mary's first Christmas.



Theirs was marked by a birth. Before you get any ideas, that is where the similarities end. (-; However, there are many similarities that draw me near to the cradle 2000+ years later.

The holy couple is marginalized

Angel Gabriel Not to throw wet hay on the Yule log, but let us consider the marginalization that accompanied the Nativity. Mary and Joseph had a big "questionable" in their past, something for which the church people distanced themselves. In all of history, their explanation of the fatherhood of Jesus was unique. Much like today, most didn't accept it and consider Jesus' an out-of-wedlock conception. When the angel came with the glad tidings, we don't have it recorded that Mary wondered how she was going to explain this to others. We don't know if she considered how she would be treated by the legalistic in the synagog.


That one special night might have seemed extremely "calm and bright" years later. Mary and Joseph needed a lot of grace, love, and forgiveness to face the people after making their decision to have the child. I'm sure at the laundry, the carpenter shop, and the Temple people were buzzing about the "life of sin" that Mary and Joseph must have secretly led. Although we don't know this for sure, perhaps Mary had experienced many "women at the well" experiences accompanied by the young Jesus. Jesus must have suffered ridicule on the playground. >From my experience, following God always repulses the people who are simply "religious".


No matter what our profession, where we live, what religious group we frequent, or what the era, if we want to follow God, if we want to bring new spiritual lives into the world, there will come times to buck the system, ruffle religious feathers, and just follow the Lord in faith and love.


>From the start, Jesus could empathize with our trials. (1 Peter 2:21) Jesus was surely called an illegitimate child numerous times in the playground-->

Your donations are valued. This site is advertizement-free.  We depend on your donations to continue to provide high quality information.   If God touches your heart with what you read here, please support our work.     Use check or credit card secured by PayPal."Silent night, holy night, all is calm, all is bright."



Silent night...Aurelia and I are celebrating our first Christmas as husband and wife.
Holy night... It is the time of the year when I take time to consider Joseph and Mary's first Christmas.




Theirs was marked by a birth. Before you get any ideas, that is where the similarities end. (-; However, there are many similarities that draw me near to the cradle 2000+ years later.

The holy couple is marginalized

Not to throw wet hay on the Yule log, but let us consider the marginalization that accompanied the Nativity. Mary and Joseph had a big "questionable" in their past, something for which the church people distanced themselves. In all of history, their explanation of the fatherhood of Jesus was unique. Much like today, most didn't accept it and consider Jesus' an out-of-wedlock conception. When the angel came with the glad tidings, we don't have it recorded that Mary wondered how she was going to explain this to others. We don't know if she considered how she would be treated by the legalistic in the synagog.


That one special night might have seemed extremely "calm and bright" years later. Mary and Joseph needed a lot of grace, love, and forgiveness to face the people after making their decision to have the child. I'm sure at the laundry, the carpenter shop, and the Temple people were buzzing about the "life of sin" that Mary and Joseph must have secretly led. Although we don't know this for sure, perhaps Mary had experienced many "women at the well" experiences accompanied by the young Jesus. Jesus must have suffered ridicule on the playground. From my experience, following God always repulses the people who are simply "religious".


No matter what our profession, where we live, what religious group we frequent, or what the era, if we want to follow God, if we want to bring new spiritual lives into the world, there will come times to buck the system, ruffle religious feathers, and just follow the Lord in faith and love.


From the start, Jesus could empathize with our trials. (1 Peter 2:21) Jesus was surely called an illegitimate child numerous times in the playground

God's People are marginalized

Amadeo, a former Muslem in God's family now. As one, like you, who desires to follow the Lord above all, my life would easily be characterized by going against the current and lovingly comparing the status quo with what I understand from Scripture. I never seemed to take heed of one of my dad's favorite phrases, "Just go with the flow." This doesn't provide a lot of "silent nights" for me but many sleepless ones. However, disciples of Christ can see Him truly work around them. We look over the battles of the day toward the Day of reward for the good and the faithful servants. (Luke 19:17)


In Italy, we are working with God's People. They are almost as taboo as Jesus' out-of-wedlock conception. The reason why one missionary calls them a cult is that they were founded by a female missionary, they believe that we still receive spiritual gifts from the Holy Spirit, they practice the laying on of hands, and focus on brotherly love and forgiveness. Although Aurelia had to adapt to their freer form of worship, for our part it was fantastic to return to the practices of the early church, and they welcomed us warmly.


The phrase they most commonly use is, "In the presence of God and in the name of Jesus Christ," they reference the Bible and believe its principles, so we seemed like a perfect match. The question that burned in my mind was, would they accept the Christ of the Bible, not the Jesus created in their image? Others had tried to start Bible studies. Would God use me as the tool?

Behold, I bring you good tidings of a great joy..." for the marginalized children

People surely advised Mary to secretly have the child and then leave Him to die of starvation in the wilderness--nameless, cold, and crying out for love. A woman of lesser faith would have used that form of abortion. This would have made the angels' proclamation to the shepherds quite different, "Behold I bring you sad tidings of a great tragedy, for on this day, in the trash heap of the City of David lies the body of Christ who was to be your Savior." In Romania, Erika's work with pediatric AIDS patients puts her in contact with children who are society's outcasts. When I speak to churches about our work among the AIDS children, occasionally the response is, "why should we help when they are going to die anyway?" The Romanian government often thought no differently, letting funding for medication lapse and children die. We stepped inAurelia and Cristina with our widow's mites and filled in the gap.


We believe strongly that these children, born with this fate, deserve a life where they can laugh, learn, and feel loved. Seeing them laugh, sing, count, and quote verses gives a gift that you can't find at Neman Marcus.

In Romania, where Aurelia and I work half the year in the hospital, many of the children are ashamed of the stigma that tuberculosis gives them. TB is a disease predominantly of the impoverished. Many children were left there and don't know anything but the hospital. Most are behind in their education, like was 8 year-old Oana who didn't know the alphabet, 6 year-old Rodica who couldn't tell black from white, and 7 year-old Mariana who couldn't speak. Although the are ashamed to mention that they live at the hospital, we have gone to help them and others "grow in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and man." (Luke 2:52)

"A brave man and a good wine both last a short time." -- Italian Proverb
Mary, Joseph, and Jesus bravely stood for love in a legalistic society. If they hadn't, the Messiah's cry would never

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have pierced the still night air, and we would be still-born in our sins. We (you and we) are trying to take that same stand, for we have all experienced marginalization (2 Timothy 3:12) and can relate to others who are the same. Just as Mary and Joseph played a part in bringing the Word to life, ironically after 9 months, we were invited to bring the Word of God to His People as was prophesied by Marco and Cristina, two people marginalized for having spiritual gifts that are "out of season".


The birth of Christ was a day in human history that will have no equal. (Without Christmas there would be no Easter.) But perhaps God ensured that we wouldn't know the exact day because He wants to convey that each day it is replicated in a small way in obscure places of the world, among unsuspecting people, with whom He finds favor.

Merry Christmas, Buon Natale, and Craciun Fericit.

Grace and love,
Laurent and Aurelia










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